honestly: c/mutualaid

If not for yourself then for the kids.

I extremely hope things get better for you, but even if they don't, let us at least pay for some better meals, you can't live off ramen, especially not growing kids.

Insurance companies are ghouls, keep hounding them.

Our cupboards are bare to the point where my kids are asking to go stay at a friend’s house so they can stop eating ramen.

I’m worried for you and your kiddos. Have you tried local food banks, churches, other mutual aid resources? Do you need help getting access to food, either financially or practically?

We can’t fix the house or the car but I bet we can figure out how to fix the bare cupboards.

are you alright?

Stay strong comrade! I'm sorry to hear you have to deal with this.

I think it's important to remember that we live in actual hellworld and none of this shit is your fault. I try to remind myself of that every day.

Self-compassion is the only thing that kept me from going back to depression. I have a lot of experience with the Big Sad but I'm wary of giving unsolicited advice, feel free to hit me up if you wanna talk