I was a long time lurker of r/cth and it was the only sane place I could go on Reddit to read shit that wasn’t saturated with racist memes about where I was born (China). Like I don’t even live there and haven’t for decades but fuck me is it wearying to see sOCiAl CrEDIt SCorE jokes on every fucking thread. Anyway I’m done with Reddit and was hanging around general lemmy instances and found y’all through the federation noise. I guess this post was kind of pointless but I’m just happy this community is still around.

Love & peace x

  • Freeanotherday [he/him, they/them]
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    1 year ago

    I hated the discord era but it did help keep a good chunk of us in touch.

    Sad so many of us got scattered. At least we get to celebrate when one of them make it back.

    spongebob-party

    • Awoo [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      Yeah discord causes immense problems outside of small groups, once you get over like 30-50 active people in one space it quickly dissolves into quite a lot of personal conflicts.

      Not that personal conflicts don't happen here but discord makes them far more public and stressful for people involved, which plays into ongoing issues day after day. You get them in any setting but different formats make them present in less problematic ways.

      • WoofWoof91 [comrade/them]
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        1 year ago

        the exception to this is servers designed for a specific purpose, at least in my experience
        like large ttrpg servers have been drama free for me

        • niph [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          I run a server of 1000+ and uh... there are certainly headaches. But it's not too bad because it is a specific purpose/marginalised community server.

      • keepcarrot [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I find I'm either shut out of conversations because America/Europe are asleep, or the chat moves too fast to have conversations (on servers above a size)

    • MolotovHalfEmpty [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Yeah, I missed the actual final day or two. Found out about the discord due to some comrade DMing me, went there, hated it because I'm old and not online enough for Discord, but eventually heard about this place there.mlurked and joined about 3 years ago. Shoutout to that comrade who DM'd me. I'd have hated to have had to spend the last few years embroiled in the great scratched-liberalisation of Reddit.