• axont [she/her, comrade/them]
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      3 months ago

      It's common for black women to wear wigs to have long, straight hair even if their natural hair is very curly and poofy, like an afro. This is the result of western beauty standards imposing themselves on people who aren't white.

      The black woman is complimented by a white woman for daring to defy western beauty standards to wear her natural hair. The black woman then responds that it must take confidence for the white woman to wear her natural hair as well. Basically saying, "I'm not wearing a wig, but you should be." It's a good clap back.

      • LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him]
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        3 months ago

        The black woman is complimented by a white woman for daring to defy western beauty standards to wear her natural hair. The black woman then responds that it must take confidence for the white woman to wear her natural hair as well.

        A great and straightforward explanation! 👍🏾

        • Taster_Of_Treats [none/use name]
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          3 months ago

          Also it's not just wigs.. Hair relaxers can be very harsh chemicals that can burn your scalp. So it's a lot to ask somebody or require that they straighten it. But some schools and work places still do.

          • sexywheat [none/use name]
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            3 months ago

            some schools and work places still do.

            My gut reaction to that was "WTF that's bullshit no way they could force people to straighten their hair!?" and then I thought about it for 0.00005 seconds and was like "Yeah of course they would."

            • Taster_Of_Treats [none/use name]
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              3 months ago

              The good news is that increasingly, those that do get roasted in the press and even protested. But yeah, 10+ years ago it was much more common.

              The dems attempted to pass a law banning this in 2022, but they failed to pass it before midterms. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/CROWN_Act_of_2022