others are a lot more relaxed about it, to a point where I've heard of socialists dating conservatives.

This is something I truly cannot imagine

These intersections politicized my existence so much that I wasn't able to hate myself or even remotely perceive myself as a human being deserving of basic rights and respect until I embraced radical leftism, and I'd like nothing less than a partner who espouses the same or similar ideals.

Totally understandable! I hope you find the radical partner of your dreams