I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.

  • EstraDoll [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    I remember my first time like the time I first thought to myself "wow I love being cis"

    monke-rage it never fuckin happened

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      makima-huh I will keep it as real as possible with u - if u did not have sex during your teen years you dodged a MASSIVE bullet.

      • EstraDoll [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        lmao, i was such a walking pile of eggy emotional issues, restrictive parents, and crying that there was a solid 0% chance i'd ever get laid as a teenager. i still don't feel like i "dodged a bullet" though

        • ashinadash [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          I mean I legit unironically think it's better to miss out during your teens, feels less good if you also miss out in your 20s bocchi-cry

          I haven't been single since I was 14 though and all I got was a fucking boatload of trauma that's taken twelve years and counting to work through normal

        • magi [null/void]
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          4 months ago

          Picking up knowledge to use later is what I'd recommend

          Reading some books on trans sex and such. FTW is a good start too.

          It's far better when you know what your doing and get good with just touch and how to play with sensation.

          Those are things you dont get taught. You can teach yourself tho.

    • FourteenEyes [he/him]
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      4 months ago

      Hey if I managed to find someone then you can too

      Just be ready for dating to suck ass and take forever before you find a good match