So apparently I "passed" yesterday when meeting up with an older relative I haven't seen for awhile when we were going to another relative's place for a graduation party. Which confuses the hell out of me, because I'm very much an AMAB cis male, and comfortable with that, and make no efforts to pretend otherwise. Apparently thick shoulder-length hair and a very clean shave and some lavender in my plaid shirt was feminine-coded in her eyes.