There's some guy I talk to who believes the theory that the top 20 percent of dudes get 80% of women, and that because he doesn't have a brad pitt jaw and isn't 6' +, he might as well just hate women because they'll never like him anyways.

  • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]
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    5 months ago

    Please don't break my post down like a reddit debate guy 🙏 (jk)

    I'm 34 so not that old and I see plenty of zoomer women with guys who are like 4s if we're going to be rating people in that way.

    Why don't you tell me what exactly is wrong with your face and height in your eyes?

    That word akward is important and I'm going to hone in on that later.

    You know what I mean, they don't literally hate you as a person. You mean they just find you as a romantic partner automatically unattractive because you aren't a 'chad'

    The whole they're 'reacting naturally' thing is very much veering toward Blackpill rhetoric. I see incels saying almost verbatim this same thing. As if women have no agency and are automatically drawn to a 'chad' no matter what.

    I get the feeling it's more you're off-putting and AWKWARD socially in some way you can't see yourself, rather than you being hideous.

    I know the dating world is also extremely tough for men who aren't neurotypical

    I don't hate you man and I'm certainly not trying to pick on you. I just really dislike black pill rhetoric.