I know this is a weird question. But I'm just wondering. Please don't kill me.

I do body weight exercises. And finding it harder to do exercises that want me to lay down on my front side. Because, my ____ is squishing.😮‍💨

Also, there is a stupid stigma that exercise makes women more masculine. But are there any workouts that make a man look feminine? Like, it would be bit weird to see a BLL sized butt on a man, right?


This question came to my mind when I saw a workout plan in my app. The plans' name is "Bikini Body". I was like, "I should probably stay away from this. But what happens if I did it anyway?"

  • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    You may have never realized, but big ol bubble butt on a dude is considered very attractive lmao especially if it's muscle.

    There's exercises that might make you leaner instead of bulkier but I don't think there's anything that can strictly feminize, I think this is the eternal struggle of self-styled femboys.

    • gpstarman@lemmy.today
      hexagon
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      2 months ago

      You may have never realized, but big ol bubble butt on a dude is considered very attractive lmao especially if it's muscle.

      I do realize it. But, just wondering whats the limit, cause I've seen a dude on Youtube (it's a clip where the host got distracted by a man walking with a giant butt along with his bodyguards) with a massive butt.

      • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        A big butt is masc. Ever seen baseball players? They got nice big butts. They get scouted at least partially on the sizes of their butts.

        You will not exercise your way to a truly enormous giant butt. If that's your goal, I'm sorry that you likely won't achieve it. You can exercise to a big ol nice butt that can turn heads but I wouldn't worry about it being "feminizing" cause... plenty og hot dudes have big butts

  • RovingFox@infosec.pub
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    2 months ago

    The stigma with excersises make women more masculin is because of the mentality that muscles are for men. Excersises will change your body and they will give you a new image but depends on you how you want to view it and choose people around you that view it the same way.

  • If you're doing leg days so much that you're concerned about having an ass that is really just too big then honestly good for you

    As a big ball haver yeah you gotta watch out doing pretty much everything I'm assuming you are wearing something to keep them from going all over the damn place

  • makingStuffForFun@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Yeah, listen, I was doing my own exercises and I was everyday watching my wife doing her exercises, and then I realised "holly hell she is exercising way harder than I am", and working muscle groups that I really wanted to work so I gave up my routine and joined hers.

  • Kuori [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    The plans' name is "Bikini Body". I was like, "I should probably stay away from this. But what if I did it anyway?"

    thonk-trans

      • Kuori [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        nothing wrong with experimenting! if you're curious about exercises that might give you a more femme shape you may be interested in (warning:reddit) https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyfitness/ which i'm told is highly inclusive and helpful.

        • gpstarman@lemmy.today
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          2 months ago

          Probably I've worded my question badly. Because, femme shape is the thing that I don't want.

          It might still help, because I can look that subreddit and avoid what is recommended there.

          Thank You.

    • gpstarman@lemmy.today
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      edit-2
      2 months ago

      Thank you for your valuable comment.

      It would be better if it's bit long (your comment)

  • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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    2 months ago

    Never had that problem, maybe because I have the thigh-gap body type.

  • Pulptastic@midwest.social
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    2 months ago

    All pecs all the time is the only thing I can think of.

    If you want to be particularly manly I'd say go for the cobra muscles (lats, traps, delts) and everyone loves a good butt so don't skip leg day.