She has her in profile she's gay and taken and she still has weirdo creepy lurkers on that sub dming her and trying to hit on her.

Like one time a dude messaged her 'What's up? I'm 6'1." Trying to dick wave like she'd be impressed

Do all subreddits geared towards women have latent incel creepers stalking profiles?

Pretty gross lurking as a creeper dude in a place where people go looking for advice about their body.

  • Outdoor_Catgirl [she/her, they/them]
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    3 months ago

    What even would big dick problems be(for a man)? It being harder to wear tight pants, and it being painful for some people to have sex with you?

    • Pili [any, any]
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      3 months ago

      being painful for some people to have sex with you

      This is the only actual problem I believe. You know you have to keep the intercourse short otherwise it will be painful. You can always finish it off without penetration of course so it's not a huge problem, but it still hurts intimacy quite a bit.

      Other than that:

      • The penis can touch inside the toilet bowl when you sit on it, which isn't great hygienically.
      • And if you go to the swimming pool with your class as a kid, your classmates will laugh at your bulge.

      So nothing actually disabling unlike big boobs problems, just some annoyance and being limited in certain sexual practices. I've never heard of someone getting dick reduction surgery to fix their pain so it can't be that problematic.

      • UrsineApathy [any, comrade/them]
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        3 months ago

        This is all mostly true in my experiences. The sexual aspects being the most impactful and otherwise just being careful about how you dress, which is more of a slight inconvenience sometimes than an actual problem, but there are others.

        • There's no such thing as a quickie because of how much warmup is required and then once you're down to business chafing becomes a serious issue very quickly if you're not careful.
        • Most alternative sexual acts to PIV(and even that) are out of the question or difficult and unsatisfying with some women.
        • You can't use standard condoms without risking breakage and need to use very expensive brands or custom order them(and they still don't fit right).
        • Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.
        • Wearing good underwear is required otherwise nothing is left to the imagination. For example, I generally can't wear sweatpants or swimwear in polite company without taking extra precautions. In a similar vein tight clothes also present a similar issue and are more uncomfortable.
        • A lot of people don't realize the self esteem issues that usually come along with it. It sucks to literally have an otherwise great relationship ruined because you physically cannot have sex with a partner.
        • A lot of men end up with weird dysmorphia issues. You don't even realize it's an issue until you're well into adulthood because porn has ruined people's expectations. If you're not 12 inches long, you're not big. I didn't even realize the extent of the problems it caused until I was in my late 20's because until that point I actually thought I was small...
        • You will never receive any sympathy for any of these issues and talking about it will get you laughed at in most circles.
        • Pili [any, any]
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          3 months ago

          Depending on how far up the spectrum you are, staying erect without medical help can be difficult, but this is more of a fringe issue.

          Hmmm this point is interesting because I had some issues with that too so I looked it up, and it seems that there is absolutely no correlation between penis size and ED. But I imagine there is probably some unnoticed anxiety due to a fear of potentially hurting our partner, if that happened to us in the past.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        3 months ago

        finish it off without penetration of course

        Cis people do not have the range, it seems

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
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      3 months ago

      One common complaint among sex workers is that guys with big dicks won’t listen or won’t believe them when they say it hurts because the guys just want to imitate what they see in porn

      • Tabitha ☢️[she/her]
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        3 months ago

        the guys just want to imitate what they see in porn

        that's a much more general problem