I don't think you should say you love them after 4 dates. It can depend though. My previous relationship I don't think I ever truly felt I loved them, though I did eventually say it back to them after quite a long time.
This time, me and my partner said it simultaneously. We are both pretty attachment averse people, but for us it happened fast. Probably like 1 and a half months in, but we were on a project together abroad so we hung out a hell of a lot.
I don't think you should say you love them after 4 dates. It can depend though. My previous relationship I don't think I ever truly felt I loved them, though I did eventually say it back to them after quite a long time.
This time, me and my partner said it simultaneously. We are both pretty attachment averse people, but for us it happened fast. Probably like 1 and a half months in, but we were on a project together abroad so we hung out a hell of a lot.