IT’S NOT THE SAME THING FFS

It’s like climate vs weather, the former is used to refer to much broader phenomena. With the cowgirl maneuver, while yes, you are riding dick, one might even consider it the prototypical dickriding move, it doesn’t make one a broadspectrum dickrider.

You can ride dick in the doggystyle position, by straddling dick on the couch you are dick riding. Dickriding is not only a sexual action, it’s a word that can be used as a metaphor for sucking up to someone and ipso facto it once again has a sexual connotation because actually sucking dick can also be considered dick riding.

So if I write or say cowgirl, I do not want general, allpurpose dickriding. I am looking for a specific position that has a tantric history dating back thousands of years. There MUST be a certain degree of respect for language and tradition.

  • Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]
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    3 months ago

    I had a friend called Dick Riding and he hated being called a cowgirl on the part of he was neither a cow nor a girl

  • Dolores [love/loves]
    cake
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    3 months ago

    we should probably rename (number) and reclassify all sex positions anyway, it's a semantic mess in there!

    • gueybana [any]
      hexagon
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      3 months ago

      Good point but I just want to note this is purely educational and I do feel people should know.

  • Deadend [he/him]
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    3 months ago

    Dickriding is gender neutral term.

    It also implies the riden isn’t really taking part.

    Such as “you weirdos dickriding Elon Musk”

    • Amerikan Pharaoh@lemmygrad.ml
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      3 months ago

      I think "dickriding" being a gender-neutral term is why it pisses me off hearing dudes accusing other dudes of glazing when they really mean dickriding like

      C'mon now