(not sure if this is the right community, sorry)

Hi, someone posted this on another server. I'd like to request we defederate with rammy.site and exploding-heads.com as well. I scrolled through some of their posts and comments and it's full of ridiculous anti-left propaganda, for example a post where some liberal Florida family fleeing the state when some child protection laws got passed, implying liberals abuse children and won't live in a state that doesn't allow them to. Just take a look for yourself.

" Admins of Lemmy.ml please consider defederating from rammy.site it has been taken over by right wing malicious actors from exploding-heads.com and the admin is nowhere to be found.

It is imperative that you take action as soon as possible the users on rammy are using the site to spread their messages to a further audience, we must nip this in the bud. If you don't believe me check the instance for yourself, you'll see it dominated with bigoted right wing posts and spam communities."

Edit: So many commenters think this is about political opinions or disagreement. It's not. If I said "Mixing bleach and ammonia is good for you" I bet some of you would call that a political disagreement.

  • Shredder@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I joined this instance because it doesn't block/ defederate. Everyone can pick what they want to see cutting it off is stupid.

    • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      I joined this instance because I wanted to learn, collaborate, and share tech- and art-related ideas in an environment not toxic like commercial social media that has been filled with bad actors. An environment more akin to the 1990s BBS systems where tech-misfits are free to be without being subjected to hate from those pushing anti-social philosophies.

        • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
          hexagon
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          11 months ago

          This is the closest thing I could find that was related, can you send me what you found?:

          Any illegal activities which includes, but certainly isn't limited to spamming, portflooding, portscanning, unauthorised connections to remote hosts and any sort of scam can really not be tolerated here. Why? Because there are many here on this system that can suffer from this sort of abuse. If you want to use SDF, you really have to care about this system and the people here. If you don't want to care, then you really shouldn't use this resource.

        • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
          hexagon
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          11 months ago

          I did read the FAQ before asking this, I did not take it to mean it's a policy of the server not to defederate.

          • Artemis@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            https://sdf.org/?tutorials/social_network

            SDF - The Ethical Social Network What 'Social Network' means to us (a history lesson)

            ....To the users of the SDF Public Access UNIX System, 'SDF Social' is based on the concepts and principles of the early Social Networks that we have always been a part of and not the highly commercialized, for-profit and ethically questionable Social Networks of the late 1990s and 2000s.

            Simply put, SDF has always been about Collaboration, Non-Commercialism, Choice and Privacy.

            Choice is very important here. Anyway best of luck in your endeavour whatever it is.

            Also in the IRC section there's something about "Common sense" it's a great read. Just saying. Best regards.

            • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
              hexagon
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              11 months ago

              I seem to interpret that differently than you. I also read the common sense section, and felt that it supported my position.

  • funchords@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    If I am reading the situation wrong, I apologize.

    The reason that I am not a member at beehaw was because they were overly wrapped up in concerns such as this one. I'm here for enjoyable chats with people, not to take sides in the latest macro-politics or causes or whatever lately is stirring the pot or making the winds blow. These things are fine and some people are interested in them, but I'm turned off by the idea of an instance that is particularly identified one way or another when I am not concerned with any of that.

    What I'm looking for are kind souls that share an interest in technology and an instance that was widely federated so that a wide variety of my interest groups (music, weightloss, networking, ancient Stoicism) are available. That's why I joined here. SDF has been around a long time and many who have enjoyed its offerings have held many different opinions and yet shared this resource peacefully.

    I'm particularly turned off by people that want a silo with only the right causes, only the right thinking, only the right speech.

    That doesn't mean we shouldn't have management and protection of against those that are unkindly trolling or actively trying to do technical damage. Ban those actually doing evil. But if people of good cheer share different views kindky as neighbors and friends, I have no problem with that and don't want to see that roped off.

    Remember the two rules of FidoNet? "Don't be excessively annoying. Don't be easily annoyed." That's all I'm saying.

      • funchords@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        There is the English dictionary definition of stoic and stoicism with a small s character. There is also an ancient philosophy of Stoicism both ongoing and with a recent revival currently ongoing.

    • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      funchords, ha, we don't know each other but we've bumped into each other before on reddit long ago and I remember your name and that you were in a barbershop quartet. looks like you picked a good instance as home, be well man :)

    • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
      hexagon
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      11 months ago

      You're reading the situation wrong. Go to those instances and read what's there, it's not about free speech, it's active disinformation campaigns and propaganda. I would feel the same if it was extreme leftist propaganda. It's not about creating an echo chamber. I respect the right to free speech, but that isn't the same as allowing people a platform to systematically organize hate using falsified information. This is a situation where silence is complicity. Their instance continues to exist without us, their free speech continues, but by remaining federated we are giving them a platform.

      • funchords@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        As usual, I have typed 500 words when 50 will do, and for that I apologize.

        Go to those instances and read what’s there

        No, I do not care to and why would you do that? You already have determined it's not right for you. Any alleged content problem that you have to see by going there would, if true, be a problem there. Does that make it a problem here? If I have to take extraordinary steps here to see it here, isn't that on me? Isn't the apparatus doing what it is supposed to be doing if I seek out a thing and find it?

        The ultimate measure of freedom is the freedom to abstain. (Nobody is forcibly opting us in to reading their content.)

        I'm just a regular user of SDF so these things aren't up to me, but I would think that it would take more than "because it exists." Defederation and Federation shouldn't be used to signal alignment and nonalignment of expression, but for reasons of managing the network itself. A telephone company provides service to everyone and doesn't care what you do with your phone. But, if someone is using it in a way that disrupts the network itself or others' ability to use the network, the telephone company should act to protect the overall integrity of the network. Even then it wouldn't silence the speech because of the speech, but because of the network.

        Their instance continues to exist without us, their free speech continues, but by remaining federated we are giving them a platform.

        Look, it's one thing to be put off by someone going out of their way to affront you. It's another to feel affronted after going out of your way to find if there is something objectionable anywhere. By that logic, since you have found something then defederation alone should not be enough, as "we are giving them a platform" still, because other people might visit there directly instead of through federation. Therefore, due to that situation, they should not have an DNS entry so you work on their Registrar to "deplatform" them. Then, because someone can connect using an IP address, their ISP should disconnect their service or else they're providing their ISP as a platform. But as they can get another ISP in this day of mobile connectivity, you could chase down their power company, yes, because their power company is a platform -- as is their landlord -- as is their employer. And so on.

        I remain unconvinced.

        • Artemis@lemmy.sdf.org
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          11 months ago

          You could write 5000 words and I doubt they would change their views. Still I certainly enjoyed reading your words. Best regards.

        • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
          hexagon
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          11 months ago

          Edit: I somehow failed to copy and paste

          >No, I do not care to and why would I?

          No, I do not care to and why would you do that?

          Let's not be like Reddit and comment essays without reading the article. That's why. You don't even know what you're arguing for if you don't look at it.

          If I have to take extraordinary steps here to see it here, isn't that on me? Isn't the apparatus doing what it is supposed to be doing if I seek out a thing and find it?

          It's been all over my all feed personally, maybe you just don't pay attention to where content is coming from?

          going out of your way to find if there is something objectionable anywhere

          See above

          because other people might visit there directly instead of through federation

          See above

          Therefore, due to that situation, they should not have an DNS entry so you work on their Registrar to "deplatform" them.

          No, I believe the internet is the utility. Unless actual crimes are being committed, they can have their websites. The key difference here is lemmy.sdf.org is relaying the posts from its own server, and therefore participating in spreading harmful disinformation. It's not like a telephone company that lets anyone call, it's like a newspaper that published anyone's articles, or a bulletin board at the library that doesn't moderate what's there.

          • funchords@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            No, I do not care to and why would I?

            If you are going to quote me, quote me. Do not edit my quotes.

            Let’s not be like Reddit and comment essays without reading the article. That’s why. You don’t even know what you’re arguing for if you don’t look at it.

            Your article is the article. Your story is you read something somewhere about these sites, not from the sites. You passed it along, later checking and finding that some of the first facts were wrong (which is fine, that happens), but that you still think there were problems here. Perhaps, even bigger problems here.

            I don't need to visit any other sites to hold the principle that federation or defederation is about network management, not the views or viewpoints of the content. Not whether the content is right or wrong or factual or not, but whether it impacts the federation itself.

            If I was in charge of network or systems management here, my main concern with all of this would be that rammy.site is reportedly without any moderation/administration. But I'm just a user here, and it seems that you are too. You've said your bit, I've said mine, and we both been cordial about it.

            You should keep talking about this if you remain interested in it, but I'm moving on. I just wanted to voice my view that the reason I joined this instance was because it was widely federated and not involved in what was going on at beehaw.

      • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        it’s active disinformation campaigns and propaganda.

        That's for me to decide, not for you to decide on my behalf.

        Edit:

        Their instance continues to exist without us, their free speech continues, but by remaining federated we are giving them a platform.

        This entire ideology is bullshit and I am not interested in being on instances run by people who believe it.

  • vlad@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    Please don't! The whole reason I made an account here is because they don't defederate. I want to control what I read. If you have a problem with a certain instance or user, block them yourself! It's very easy.

    I don't want to have to spin up a whole instance just for myself.

    • CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      You said it better than I was going to. Keeping truthaboutjews.ru out of grandma's feed is one thing, but I feel like I'm savvy enough to read garbage responsibly. Maybe I'm being overconfident but there it is.

    • some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      I decided to see for myself so I could voice an informed opinion. One of the first posts I saw on their (EH) Local channel, titled Based Pride Month, is an image of a headline reading, Saudi Arabia Celebrate Pride Month by Hanging Gays with Rainbow Noose. This is hateful content. My ability to discern such has nothing to do with savvy. I don't want to see these opinions because they are grotesque.

      However, I haven't seen ExHeads leaking out into the greater Lemmiverse. That said, I want nothing to do with anyone who considers this ok. Even if they are currently fairly contained, they have made it clear who they are and I choose not to surround myself with bigots.

      I vote to defederate. We don't need to wait for them to become a huge pain in the ass. They are showing us who they are.

        • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
          hexagon
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          11 months ago

          What do you think a federation is? If you don't like the decisions of an instance you go to another one. If this instance defederates from rammy.site I'm staying, if not I'm leaving. You're free to leave if they defederate too, and if you felt the need to leave because of it I'd be happy to have you gone.

          • vlad@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            I simply don't understand what you gain by asking someone else to block content for you when you could simply do it yourself. You get all the benefits of not seeing the content you don't like without imposing your will onto others.

            • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
              hexagon
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              11 months ago

              It's not about blocking content from my feed, it's about the instance not relaying that content. Maybe you would feel differently if it was child porn?

              • vlad@lemmy.sdf.org
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                11 months ago

                Yes. I would feel different if it was child porn. However, that is completely irrelevant because that crosses a legal line. So far your only argument is that there's content there you don't like. Not that there's something there that is equivalent to child pornography. Be genuine with your arguments.

                • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
                  hexagon
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                  11 months ago

                  I never argued there is content I don't like (although I guess that's implied, I don't like it. But I also don't like child porn?). Some of it actually is illegal, free speech has exceptions in the jurisdiction of SDF, but regardless of whether or not you believe that, I don't understand why anyone would want to remain federated with an unmoderated instance.

          • vlad@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            I just block whole communities. I've blocked most of the shitpost communities and now my feed is clean. Plus, I just stich to "subscribed" feed most of the time. It's really easy to not see things you don't like.

  • Artemis@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I seriously doubt sdf.org will defederate due to political, religious or other kind of views unless some kind of danger to its users is involved, and even then I'm pretty sure we would go to ARPA votes over it. While the instance might be recent the community behind sdf.org is ancient (I say this with my utmost respect for them ) so yea, not their first rodeo or last one. If you don't like the views of those instances feel free to block them yourself. Best regards.

      • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        Maybe because of the literal content of your post?

        I scrolled through some of their posts and comments and it’s full of ridiculous anti-left propaganda, for example a post where some liberal Florida family fleeing the state when some child protection laws got passed, implying liberals abuse children and won’t live in a state that doesn’t allow them to.

        I've got news for you: the entire planet has not taken up American political idiocy. Nobody outside of the USA (and many of the people in it) gives a fuck about American political slapfights.

        If you want a safe space instance for one or another American "team," find it somewhere else or start one yourself.

      • vlad@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        Because most of the time people who cry about being forced to see things they don't like are crying about a political topic. You can control what you block yourself. Don't drag the rest of us into your own echo chamber.

  • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I'm not in favor of defederating over political preference at all. I don't come to this instance expecting an echo chamber, and an echo chamber is precisely what I do not want.

    • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
      hexagon
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      11 months ago

      It's not political difference, it's disinformation and propaganda. Just look, even if you're conservative you should be able to see how messed up it is unless you lack critical thinking skills

        • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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          11 months ago

          lemmygrad is actually pretty far up the rankings in the defederated-by stats I saw a couple weeks ago 😅

  • zumi@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I would suggest just not subscribing to any communities on that site. Let's not turn everything into a defederate war debate.

  • why@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    Imo deferderating should be a last resort. And so far I haven't seen any excessive cases of people coming over and breaking the rules of this instance.

  • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I have to wonder if the people staunchly against defederation at any cost ever dealt with redditors from hate subs following them around reddit from sub to sub everywhere they posted to keep screaming at them about trans women not being women, while also repeatedly reporting them to Reddits suicide bot to try to make them think about suicide. It's not exactly the nicest online experience and I had it more than once in my time on reddit.

    To me the benefit of federation includes defederation. If it was easy to just say "get rid of all the users from r/hatesub" on reddit it would have been a lot nicer. I don't know why people are clamoring to keep hateful shit around. Go join the hateful shit instance if you want to read it so bad but I'd rather the users of an instance like that not be able to see me at all since queer people like me are who they hate so bad, and I can't exactly block all of them.

    • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      while also repeatedly reporting them to Reddits suicide bot to try to make them think about suicide.

      Whoa. That's a lot more messed up than I realized. I had thought it more in line with the FB "poke and block" but that makes a lot more sense. That's just...wow... I shouldn't expect much from bad actors but that's something that makes me that much more glad that I left Reddit.

      • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        I have only ever gotten suicide reports when I've defended trans people on reddit, meanwhile I get them almost every single time I've done that. It's 100% transphobes hoping to make trans people think about suicide. I'm not trans or suicidal, so they're wasting their time with me, but that's the motivation behind it, hoping they might get someone in a dark place.

        So I have to say I'm pretty on board with defederating from an instance that is full of posts that very much also want trans people eradicated.

  • Dr. Unabart@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I am adept enough to decide, at a personal usage level, which content I want to filter out. I refuse to be a part of a community that feels a need to make those decisions for me. SDF is one place where I know I shouldn’t have to worry about that. If you want to play content moderator, spin up your own instance and play god.

  • Eric@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    I'm confused... We're talking about trying to make two fediverses here... That's kinda weird. I hear your "don't mix bleach with ammonia"... But if I see someone say that on Lemmy... Am I going to do it? How does it actually hurt me? I understand it's hateful and offensive, but this is a free and open internet, and that is one big reason I choose Lemmy/Mastodon over twitter/reddit. It's like the library... Have you ever seen something at the library you don't like. An opposing viewpoint? Do we defund the library and close it because there's a "gay comic book" in it? That happened in my area, very stupid. I come here for all my ideas, and expect to be offended by some. It's the internet. Plan to be offended... By 9am. When you wake up at 8:55a. And it takes you 4 minutes to pick up your phone.

    But then again I could be a crazy conservative or liberal or something... Don't trust me.

    Now where where the memes again.

    • seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      Lemmy was designed for both federation and defederation. It doesn't make sense to blindly federate with every instance in existence, if for no other reason than some of them will be full of spambots and/or illegal content.

      • Eric@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        Illegal and spambots are one thing... I just don't want thought police on sdf. If your reason for defederation is "I don't like them, we should make them go away." Then maybe we are no better then the people who say those things about us.

        • seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org
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          11 months ago

          I think that users should be able to block instances, but being able to block communities may be good enough, at least at this stage in Lemmy's development.

          Another issue with extremists is they like to orchestrate coordinated harassment campaigns against people they don't like. If that kind of thing starts to happen (which seems likely), that would be a good reason for defederation.

          "I don't like them, we should make them go away."

          Everybody has the right to freedom of association. Nobody's making a website "go away". You'd still be free to go there and read their stuff on your own. I do think defederation should be a last resort, though.

    • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
      hexagon
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      11 months ago

      This is my daily reminder that there are many people on the internet who don't understand history. And also seemingly a lack of understanding of the word federation.

      • ThorrJo@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        And also seemingly a lack of understanding of the word federation.

        All this can be solved easily if you just go somewhere else.

    • Eric@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      Additional thought... If the people in the defederate camp just go and post things they don't like... Maybe they defederate with us... Then we don't stoop, and you get your wish? (I assume it goes both ways) 😜

      • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        History doesn't show it going that way. The bad actors often take an approach similar to EEE, seeking out potential vulnerable populations of misfits to exploit. Rammy has been effectively taken over by EH users due to absent admins and maintaining federation just helps the bad actors continue to find victims.

        Let's take a look at some (US) historical examples:

        • The "Gamergate" saga was coopted by bad actors to radicalize isolated young men in the online gaming community, enabled by unchecked vitriol. This led directly to communities like 4chan, which were home to shitposting internet misfits, being coopted by the far-right and repurposed as platforms for spewing hatred and sharing plans for terrorism.
        • Neo-nazis coopted the fashions and musical style of hardcore punk rocker "skins" (making "skinhead" synonymous with neo-nazi and making SHARP necessary). During the 80s and 90s, said neo-nazis invaded venues, assaulting and battering attendees, while spewing forth hate. This led to not just the writing of "Nazi Punks, Fuck Off" but formation of explicitly anti-nazi bands like Reagan Youth and escalations in violence against the invaders who were trying to take over.
        • Going back to the early-20th century, extremely wealthy bad actors, in what became known as The Business Plot, attempted to use neglected veterans to remove FDR from office in a coup, in order to undo The New Deal and ally the US with Axis powers. They did so by a combination of bribery and getting bad actors into their target audiences' venues under false pretenses so that they could deliver their messages in a manner intended to elicit sympathy for their cause.

        How about current events? Commercial and non-commercial entities alike are pulling away from the microblogging platform formerly-known as Twitter due to unchecked vitriol, hate, and disinformation.

        • Eric@lemmy.sdf.org
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          11 months ago

          Well... I visited there site... That's... Ummm... Well... Maybe there servers can cool down by going to hell? That's.... That's not good man. I may even have seen some sort of terrorist activity on the home page. I'm not saying I would be happy about saying this... But maybe we should defederate. Eats Humble Pie

          • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            Thank you for taking the time to look at the evidence and reevaluate. I really don't like it myself and it's exhausting but, due to the existence of bad actors, we have to be vigilant in order to protect our free and open venues from being subverted or complicit with their behavior.

  • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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    11 months ago

    The exploding-heads troll communities are tongue in cheek, and intended to rustle your jimmies. You're taking the bait.

    • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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      11 months ago

      Yeah, and defederating them makes it to where they can't get the attention they want anymore.

      • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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        11 months ago

        They really aren't already. Even the "tankies" are telling them how gay it is, that all they can think about is other people's genitals. And the blatant troll posts rarely get above 3-5 likes and zero comments. I also notice the more sane instance members are defecting to other instances, because they want actual discussion. I've seen a few on here already, behaving like reasonable humans.

        If there was a mass defederation, it could be argued they wouldn't have abandoned ship for calmer water.

        • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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          11 months ago

          Then...great. If the posters who aren't horrible are leaving then what's the problem defederating the trolls left over?

          • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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            11 months ago

            My understanding is that if we defederated with them, they wouldn't see our communities in their feeds. Thus, they wouldn't know that people that just want to discuss common interests and not impotent hatred, are here at SDF, waiting for them to come be friends.

            • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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              11 months ago

              They can see it logged out, and presumably would have to already know SDF exists to get registered anyway.

              • Dr. Wesker@lemmy.sdf.org
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                11 months ago

                Eh, I don't think so. Browsing All, you can pretty clearly see what instance a post was made on. Consider me a missionary, because I fairly prolifically clique jump between instance posts. And what kind of psychopath would browse logged out?

                • lori@lemmy.sdf.org
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                  11 months ago

                  Is the SDF instance not primarily SDF users? Why would random people need to join because they saw it from another instance?

                  There's a lot of general purpose instances out there that aren't full of pages of slurs, I'm pretty skeptical that people on the instance full of slurs don't want to see those but if they don't there's other places they can find. Or they can find a new instance the same way any new user does, it's weird to argue you need an unblocked account to find out where other people are talking, new users figure this out every day without leaving users here wide open to trolls who are already spewing garbage in this very thread.

    • Shikadi@lemmy.sdf.org
      hexagon
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      11 months ago

      My far left campaign to defederate from an unmoderated compromised instance? Huh. I didn't know that had anything to do with political preferences. Are you trying to tell me that the right wing advocates for unmoderated instances and disinformation?