It is a reddit link and there are some pretty bad comments so beware, but I came upon this and appreciated the eloquence.

I've been seeing some discussion about being peer pressured into not taking precautions and throwing in the towel and I think it's really, REALLY important for folks to understand that it is actually a privilege to find yourself genuinely weighing the option to quit.

Many of our ranks do not have this choice because they are disabled and/or immunocompromised, and I think that gets ignored too often in this sub. Many have Long Covid and have had their lives completely destroyed. They've lost far more than just social interaction, restaurants, etc., (and that's not to diminish those losses, but to illustrate how much worse it can be.)

Now we are ALL facing immense societal pressure to conform (that's just the base state of existence for a covid informed individual) but the stakes for the disabled members of our community are so high that they don't even get to consider the option of buckling to peer pressure. Sadly that position has been made 100x worse by people who had more of a choice and chose the easy way out. It's incredibly difficult to do the right thing in these times just as it's always hard to stand against historical atrocities that have been adopted by the masses. When having these discussions it's crucial to remember that if you find yourself with the luxury to just abandon precautions to fit in with the crowd, that is not the choice of society but a choice of your own.

EDIT: I want to make it clear I'm not referring to people who physically cannot mask, cannot access masks, or find themselves in some kind of genuine peril for masking. I'm talking about people caving to peer pressure. And yes, I'm aware there are some disabled/immunocompromised folks who also minimize covid and don't take precautions. I'm aware in that sense that it's technically still a choice for them to do that, but it is not a practical choice for a great many vulnerable people who value their lives.

This is not a game. This is not virtue signalling - a real-ass comment about wearing a mask I saw on another comm here! It is life or death and should be treated as such.

enter at ye own peril

Unchecked ableism is a huge blind spot everywhere I look, even here. There are rules for negligence about neurodivergence, physical disability et al, but a collective dismissal when it comes to Covid is a-ok pretty much site-wide as long as you don't explicitly talk about it like a conspiracy rag. The trans mega talks about pride marches and conventions. The general mega talks about bars, movies. The news mega talks about direct action and protests. There ain't no fucking precautions happening here, babes. I know there aren't, I see the fuckin photos. I go outside. I'll go back to my silo and talk about the elephant in the room slowly and not-so-slowly killing us where no one has to see it if they don't want to - another choice I do not get to make. It is all so un-serious. I am so tired.

  • ButtBidet [he/him]M
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    Funny enough, as a tall, middle aged dude, I almost never get shit about masking. There's also a lot of privilege in how much pressure one needs to take.

    My gf regularly gets bullshit for being vegan and masking, to a level no where near I'm used to.

    • Blockocheese [any]
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      As a short, Asian, femme person in a majority white area, I've been screamed at in stores, splashed by people's cars, and had whites literally turn their heads to glare at me for masking but I still do it shrug-outta-hecks

      • ButtBidet [he/him]M
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        3 months ago

        Sorry for you. I hope the stress and rage makes their life even more miserable.

      • Ivysaur [she/her]
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        3 months ago

        Right on. For what little consolation it is living in this awful ableist world I am right there with you. rat-salute-2

  • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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    If there's a reddit-logo comm that could actually maybe appreciate Trans-Liberation, ZeroCovieCommunity is it, but there's still a ton of libs who haven't grasped that their current situation is a symptom of a wider issue. There was a post the other day about the DNC CNN anti-mask gaslighting and people were getting vote brained explaining that you had to vote for the Dems because Republicans said mean things (about some old people dieing being okay) during the Trump years. Completely oblivious to the fact that they were now living in those mean things enacted under the Dems.

    • ButtBidet [he/him]M
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      Before I left reddit-logo, the ZeroCovidCommunity was very welcoming to me as an obvious ML. It feels like COVID conscious people have above average opinions on shit, but ya, not perfect.

      The incredibly wealthy admin on the Facebook group banned me from literally everything for the gentlest class antagonistic comment. So fuck that person. At least it got me off of FB though.

      • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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        Oh, yeah Facebook is a boomer dumpster fire. About the only reason I keep my account is for the marketplace. Though I do see my memories pretty regularly and it's funny seeing all the likes on 2020 memes like 'i get to hide my face, why would I ever unmask?' liked by libs who stopped masking as soon as it wasn't socially acceptable.

        I've been thinking about doing more agitprop on ZCC, maybe cutting up clips of Death Panel or something that focuses more on the plights of the disabled and immunocompromised before Covid. Try and get them to start thinking about solidarity rather than selfishness.

        • ButtBidet [he/him]M
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          3 months ago

          My masking posts from 2020 were getting 100+ likes from just friends. Ya they're all flying to Bali now and posting maskless selfies from the air cabin.

          When I do post something about COVID, it gets very little traction outside of the COVID conscious community. Give it a try, but it was too much of a time suck for me. The ads on mobile are beyond excessive.

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    The trans mega talks about pride marches and conventions. The general mega talks about bars, movies. The news mega talks about direct action and protests. There ain't no fucking precautions happening here, babes.

    As much as this pisses me off, I find that my reaction to those sentiments are limited due to them being online and from total strangers. I feel so much more despair when it comes to IRL reactions. I've basically given up on actually engaging in any local organizing because everyone's pro-covid. But hey, at least I guess I know how vegans feel now lol.