what im saying is what im saying, stop randomly jumping to conclusions, it's so confusing
if im asking you what you need me to do for you, i'm not trying to guilt you for needing things, im asking you what you need from me
god communication is so frustrating 
As someone who had parents who automatically assumed malicious intent whenever they got mad at me over literally anything, even before I hit damn double digits, this hits.
I have a theory that parents like that would do the same thing to allistic children in a slightly different way, and just kinda hit the jackpot with having an autistic child they can take their anger out on forever and no allistic will blame them because they also think we deserve it for being "weird"