I realize those two things can go hand-in-hand. I genuinely don’t mean to be offensive and am asking in earnest. I personally was born male assigned at birth, feel pretty male but also hate being male. It’s not that I wish I was something else, I just don’t like being male and can’t relate to most “male experiences” besides having a dick. I don’t know anyone who is not cishet irl, so I could definitely use some education in this area
transitioning was a very uncomfortable prospect for me, though less so than wearing a man-suit any longer.
it only became easier/comfortable once I'd begun the process of untangling all the cisnormative bullshit id learned, beyond just "I know I'm definitely not a man" as a jumping-off point