I realize those two things can go hand-in-hand. I genuinely don’t mean to be offensive and am asking in earnest. I personally was born male assigned at birth, feel pretty male but also hate being male. It’s not that I wish I was something else, I just don’t like being male and can’t relate to most “male experiences” besides having a dick. I don’t know anyone who is not cishet irl, so I could definitely use some education in this area
I definitely hated the societal expectation of presenting and acting "like a man". Even before I knew about the concept of being trans, I always wanted to try conventionally "girly" things and I was also kind of ostracized for being a "soft" boy.
I consider myself mostly transfem but I do identify a bit with being a femboy.