Couple months ago I met a woman who works at a dispensary I visit about once a week. We hit it off really well. Despite trying to just keep it casual sex, and that only, I ended up developing some feelings for her. She confessed the same to me. I even introduced her to my teenaged daughter, for fucks sake.
I ran into her this evening at a gas station, with another guy, who turns out to be her husband. They’ve been married five years, and have two children together, ages 4 and 2. Finding out they have kids just made me feel disgusting.
So, I told him. He didnt believe me until I described a tattoo in a somewhat intimate place on her body. I had no fucking clue she was married. I think I ruined someone’s marriage. Or at least took part in ruining one.
I feel guilty. I am sorry for what I participated in. Am I a bad person?
christian moralism is when you think people shouldn't be unknowingly stuck in a relationship with someone who has no respect for them
nah dawg that is not your relationship. you overstepped. greatly. wtf.
i know it's not my relationship, i wasn't involved. i am an internet person who has never met any of the relevant people commenting from a third party neutral perspective.
when someone is being deeply wronged and they don't know about it but you do, you are (in my opinion) morally obligated to inform them. and this is a very common point of view. it is extraordinarily normal for a person who is being cheated with to find out that the person they've been in a relationship with already has a partner and to then seek out that partner and inform them. it is standard practice. 99% of people agree that it is the correct course of action.
cheating sucks. don't cheat and you won't have to worry about your partner being informed of your cheating