Not sure how to deal w it. He was a fun guy to work with. He's a good person, but pretty crazy. This is the second time he decided he reeeeallly had to make a hard sell. I'm agnostic. I feel like it's gonna really offend him bc he sent me paragraphs about the religious text and I simply don't care. But I don't wanna hurt his feelings. This time... Science proves it.

Can I have it both ways? I'm not gonna be an Islamic but I still wanna be his friend. but he's being so weird about it and I'm bad about confrontation. I'm cool with his choices but damn

  • bastion@feddit.nl
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    edit-2
    2 months ago

    Well, if you want to see if keeping him as a friend is possible, just respond with:

    You: I'm not interested in religion, and won't engage in conversation about it.

    Friend: blah blah meaningful blah religion blah.

    You: I'm not interested in religion, and won't engage in conversation about it.

    Friend: panicked or something religion blah blah convincingness blah, manuscripts, manuscripts.

    You: I'm not interested in religion, and won't engage in conversation about it.

    <cycle repeats until>

    Friend: gives up and is just friend Or Former friend: freaks out or ends friendship

    • YourMom [he/him]
      hexagon
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      2 months ago

      Ok that's good. That's what I'll be doing. Seems obvious, but really it's not when you're in the moment and you're a coward like me.