I'm still a baby budding imposter feeling queer but fortunately I was also raised a cis het man so when someone tells me that I'm not queer I have the socialized energy to say "how dare you tell me what I'm not!"
How dare anyone tell any of my comrades, queer, trans, or otherwise, what they aren't. You are who you are whoever you are. You're all heckin valid. We're all heckin valid. Send those bad beans to me I'll smash em if they tell you otherwise
gonna be honest -- "how dare you tell me what I'm not" is a hard place to get to for a lot of trans femmes. it's remarkable how fast social conditioning snaps back the other way.
I'm still a baby budding imposter feeling queer but fortunately I was also raised a cis het man so when someone tells me that I'm not queer I have the socialized energy to say "how dare you tell me what I'm not!"
How dare anyone tell any of my comrades, queer, trans, or otherwise, what they aren't. You are who you are whoever you are. You're all heckin valid. We're all heckin valid. Send those bad beans to me I'll smash em if they tell you otherwise
I like to repeatedly yell "WEEE WOOO WEEEE WOOO THE GENDER POLICE ARE ON THE SCENE"
gonna be honest -- "how dare you tell me what I'm not" is a hard place to get to for a lot of trans femmes. it's remarkable how fast social conditioning snaps back the other way.
so: you're valid