• Jordan Lund@lemmy.one
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    1 year ago

    I really don't get the need to have an app that does messaging. My phone DOES messaging, built in. Why do I need another one?

    • thelastknowngod@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      I assume you're American? When you need to talk to people across borders you need something like WhatsApp. SMS doesn't cut it.

      I'd rather use Signal but whatever.. I'm being practical. Everyone I know is on WhatsApp.

      • Thundernerd@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        The moment when I hear someone talking about SMS it is almost always an American. Can’t recall the last time I sent a text message to someone like that, wouldn’t surprise me if it was 10 years ago (for context: am Dutch)

        • Tetsuo@jlai.lu
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          1 year ago

          I think there is plenty of SMS usage in Europe.

          It's easy as a technically savy user to lose sight on what less proficient users are using.

          Yes, my parents both use perfectly fine their WhatsApp but they still send/receive a lot of SMS.

          For context, I'm in France.

          • Thundernerd@lemm.ee
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            1 year ago

            That’s interesting. I know a lot of people who WhatsApp with their grandparents though. All you have to do is install it on their phones once and then their phone becomes “the WhatsApp” in my experience

        • drlecompte@discuss.tchncs.de
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          1 year ago

          I send SM's to my kids when they're on the go, as they religiously disable gsm data and only use wifi, which means they regularly don't get my WhatsApp messages.

          Before they got their own smartphone I was scared that their data plans would cost me an arm and a leg, but it turns out they're extremely stingy with their data 🤷‍♂️

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          1 year ago

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    • knorke3@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      featureset and costs - most messaging apps don't support markdown to the same extent, sms and mms may cost extra depending on your carrier and contract, etc.

      not defending whatsapp but rather the concept in general - use signal/discord myself depending on the situation

      • Jordan Lund@lemmy.one
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        1 year ago

        My wife has an iPhone, I have an Android phone, our kid has Android, his wife has iPhone... there have been zero problems using the native apps singly or in groups.

        In fact, I had more problems trying a low-rent provider (Mint) than I ever did the various stock messaging apps.

    • rush@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      That messaging is one of two things:

      1. Outdated (SMS)
      2. A walled garden (iMessage)

      You either have SMS, which hasn't benefitted from any of the advancements of the last decade, or you have iMessage which forces you and friends to spend WAY more money than needed because you essentially NEED an iPhone to use it with your phone number.

      Please, use Signal

      • Jordan Lund@lemmy.one
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        1 year ago

        I have Android, my wife has iOS, I can chat with her singly and in group chat with other family members, I don't see a need to complicate things with another chat application.

        • rush@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          In that case whatever you're using isn't SMS.

          SMS has never supported group chats, and as such you should double-check what you're actually using to text with one another.

          I find End-To-End-Encryption especially important, as it protects the things you say between you and others, so I advise you to double-check that

          • Jordan Lund@lemmy.one
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            1 year ago

            It's just the default app that came with my phone. Encryption isn't important to me unless someone really wants to snoop on who may or may not have forgotten to buy toilet paper. LOL. We aren't talking trade secrets here.

            • rush@lemm.ee
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              1 year ago

              Privacy ≠ secrecy.

              I like to quote this from privacyguides.org: "Much like the right to interracial marriage, woman's suffrage, freedom of speech, and many others, our right to privacy hasn't always been upheld. In several dictatorships, it still isn't. Generations before ours fought for our right to privacy. Privacy is a human right, inherent to all of us, that we are entitled to (without discrimination).

              You shouldn't confuse privacy with secrecy. We know what happens in the bathroom, but you still close the door. That's because you want privacy, not secrecy. Everyone has something to protect. Privacy is something that makes us human."