I like the people who try to dunk on me in the struggle session like "but if it's a treat, why do you care so much?"
It's a treat, participating in those threads brings me joy. If it doesn't do that, then you shouldn't. I'm a little piggy for slop oink oink. I love the discussion

Except when I don't, but then I just don't participate.

Except when I have a project due, which I do, and then I do everything I can to not do the project.