Generally the claim transphobes make is that queer people acknowledging that gender norms exist are what cause them to exist (and not the much, much higher number of cishet people who reinforce those norms).

In this case, they're pretty obviously a fascist trying very badly to pretend they're not a fascist, so their arguments are even more incoherent than normal.

i don't think that guy is a gender abolitionist but given how well he understands everything else i'd expect he thinks that

a) anyone is working towards that at all, and

b) people who ID as anything other than "none" or the well-established big two are somehow making that work harder.

or he's just incoherent and i'm giving him credit by way of projecting my experience with "haven't got one of those" not really fitting in trans or NB spaces despite semantically not identifying with birth assignment and not being binary.

This is where you can really tell their bullshit. Trans people and enbies are doing the hardest lifting when it comes to gender abolition just by existing