Related to the OP's answer: self described "sex positive feminists" that do the college-age thing of aggressively flattering/mirroring people they want to fuck but it's all performative, insincere, and sex pesty. If they're called out for being sex pests, they often become crybullies about it and believe that they are the victims, not those they are harassing. It was Joss Whedon's career move but far from exclusive to him.