ITS A ME, OTHELLO! how is everyone doing this week? EM POC ONLY!!! CRACKERS GTFO

  • sweet_pecan [love/loves, they/them]
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    3 days ago

    while i have seen the trend of they them and queer users with a blatantly misogynistic take I think it's important to note that one can both be queer and misogynistic. in the same way many bi/gay/ lesbian people have brain worms about all things sexuality many genderqueer people have misogynistic takes. Realizing something about yourself in no way educated you about the experiences of others or in any way removes the brain worms that you have. we dont need to assume anyone is lying about being queer, its far more likely they are a queer person with chauvinistic thoughts that they never decided to work on. in fact i think there is a larger problem of people who realize that they are queer, and then go on to use the fact that they are queer as an excuse to never self crit (especially white queers)

    • frauddogg [null/void, undecided]
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      3 days ago

      one can both be queer and misogynistic.

      Y'know, this is a fair point to raise; and given this point

      and then go on to use the fact that they are queer as an excuse to never self crit

      this does seem a lot more likely. I think seeing that kind of fuckshit come out of what feels to be a blatant alt to me, it gets my 'okay this is all bullshit' alarms to start blaring, you're right.