So many party invites to juggle because I wanna go to all the things all of my partners want to go to. So many gifts to buy for really important people. So many mini gift exchanges to be scheduled. Every partner you or a partner or a meta adds makes everything infinitely more complicated.
It's both the most loving time of the year and also the most complicated part of the year.
I've nixed the gifts part because everyone I know is broke
Everyone I know is broke but I am very privileged so I buy everyone an immense amount of gifts. It makes it more fun for me but also more complicated for me.