MiraculousMM [he/him, any]M to menby • 29 days ago

bell hooks explained why Harry Potter sucks all the way back in 2004

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bell hooks explained why Harry Potter sucks all the way back in 2004

MiraculousMM [he/him, any]M to menby • 29 days ago

From chapter 3 of The Will to Change (join the book club!) while she's discussing how mass media reinforces partriarchal norms onto boys and young men

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abc [he/him, comrade/them]
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29 days ago

I don't recall the protagonists using violence against anyone

Chamber of Secrets literally introduces wizard duels & Harry and Malfoy are the ones who show it off for the Defense class by sending eachother careening 10 feet through the air until Malfoy says fuck it and summons an anaconda lmao

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  29 days ago
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