I made a joke about him having matching butt plugs with Nick Fuentes and how gross that is. My cishet ass didn't realize how wildly offensive that is to lgbtq comrades and I feel like a total shit for doing it so I want to apologize to the community and promise I took it to heart and will self crit on doing better.
Love y'all 
I can't help but notice that even the mods are kind of meta in what they remove.
They could have said "target of", or "object of", but instead...
We could make an effort to forgo infantile humor,
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