"If someone we perceive as female doesn't conform to this, we must shun and bully them until they perform feminity to our exact standard."
For some reason the status quo is really obsessed with policing feminity but also the west is so cool and values freedom and individualism, right?
I gotta be clear that it's not the look I'm against, it's the expectation that what all woman (and non passing people) should have to be to be accepted that bothers me, and gender policing in general.