"If someone we perceive as female doesn't conform to this, we must shun and bully them until they perform feminity to our exact standard."
For some reason the status quo is really obsessed with policing feminity but also the west is so cool and values freedom and individualism, right?
The first thing that popped in my mind was girl Wobuffet. It's been a long day and I'm enjoying a drink, so that's really all I can contribute.