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  • whatnots [he/him, it/its]
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    2 days ago

    unfortunately one thing i learned from having to make doctors write notes and fill forms is you really do have to dictate. they always want to write whatever is quickest which never paints the full picture and that more often then not gets disabled peoples support applications denied.

    i don't know how good your relationship is with your doctor, but it may be good to stress that the employment insurance is requiring a detailed note so if they feel inconvenienced by the extra work it's out of your hands. maybe you can ask about booking a longer appointment with them based on how much time you think you'll need for a detailed note?

    also sorry if this advice is unwarranted but i try to give it to everyone because sometimes even myself and others can have their disabilites downplayed. but to a doctor, and especially for any disability support applications, always answer any questions as you would if its your worst day. as an example, i can technically do basic hygiene, laundry, walk for some distance etc on a good day but on my worst day? when my symptoms are at their most unbearable? absolutely not, i would be bedridden! don't let yourself be tricked by the application or your doctor in downplaying your symptoms, always ask yourself if you're able to do certain things on your worst day because i've seen people get denied for not doing that which isn't even their fault because the system is rigged and ableist.

    you may have to be insistent with your doctor if they give you pushback though. you will always know yourself best.

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      2 days ago

      you really do have to dictate. they always want to write whatever is quickest which never paints the full picture and that more often then not gets disabled peoples support applications denied.

      Ugh that's so fucking typical!!! Figures the losers that decide on support applications only trust doctors but doctors are zero effort fuckers!! badeline-rage

      My doctor is actually a decent guy but he SUCKS at notes, honestly I may as well write him a draft. I will stress to him when I (probably) go back for another. Thankfully I can get him to write notes without appointment...

      to a doctor, and especially for any disability support applications, always answer any questions as you would if its your worst day.

      I had sorta figured this out but it is good advice, abaolutely. Makes sense to me that your worst day should be the barometer for applications like that. Shouldn't have to work so hard at applications, but the system is in fact rigid and ableist...

      • whatnots [he/him, it/its]
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        2 days ago

        right??? it really makes my blood boil too. i'm just glad you have a good doctor, save for his undetailed notes lol but that should help a lot.

        good luck with everything and i hope you get all that you need for your support to go through!!! cat-trans