this just happened and I have no one to talk to and mods feel free to remove if this violates a rule
I’m staying with a cousin and after waking up I go grab my teeth brush and then she asks why I touched the wardrobe doors as it had marks. Problem was I had no knowledge or even remembering touching the doors so I told her I don’t remember, she called me a bitch after so whatever
Then she calls me up and tells me to go to the shop to buy some stuff. She says I’m not your mother. I don’t respond so I assume this meant I acknowledged what she said, but guess I was wrong because she screamed, threw my phone (no damage thankfully) and told me to go away. I break down in tears but eventually she calms down and gives me a hug, she notices my cold response and asks if I don’t love her
Whatever I’m sorry I needed to vent again mods feel free to remove if this violates a rule
Do you have somewhere else to go if your relationship with your cousin is not salvageable? Have there been previous incidents? I feel like there might be some missing context here, but this behavior is not acceptable just based on the information you're providing.
I’ve calmed down now, yes this has happened before where she would lose her shit and then calm down and tolerate me again. I’m far from an expect, but I suspect she might have some issues mentally and in hindsight, when she told me “I’m not your mother” I should have said something as saying nothing would make her upset even more. Even then, I still believe it’s salvageable, and I have my grandparents I can stay with if shit heats up again or unsalvageable
Regardless of whether you should forgive her or not, what you're describing is not a stable person who is safe for you to stay with, emotionally speaking (and possibly physically as well given what she did with your phone).