Am I the only one who struggles with online shopping? Like with measurements for example, I don't know what there talking about or if the clothes will be the right size. How does everyone else get around this?

  • Cataphract@lemmy.ml
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    2 hours ago

    I think you're just gonna have to double-down on returns if you want that in-person experience online without jumping through hoops. Just make sure to shop online at places that have a good policy, some clothing websites know this is how it works so their policy is setup to compliment that (free returns, awesome customer service, decent return time policy).

    Think of the mail delivery as your personal entourage, they bring you clothing to try on at your leisure (which you've pre-selected the style/etc) and you just give them back if you're not satisfied. You can schedule pick-ups easily without needing to go to the post office every week if the company has a decent enough packaging system (some even send return slips/packages or are printable etc).

    To make it easier, I would suggest getting into the measurements of your body. It's not like your body is going to dramatically change from day to day so it should be something you'll be able to monitor and get used to real quick (male centric video/female centric video). It's a little more work, but will last you a lifetime as a skill to better understand your body. It will probably help lower the number of returns as well since you'll be better informed.

  • communism@lemmy.ml
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    2 hours ago

    I feel the opposite just because I rarely find clothes that fit me well in person, whereas online they can have a broader stock. The sizing is not necessarily an issue because I know what my size is, and I'm hesitant to buy from online stores without a size guide (though my guess is usually right). If it has a size guide I just measure myself to check it's in line with their sizing.

  • WittyProfileName2 [she/her]
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    4 hours ago

    Not just do you get a better sense of the measurements but also the feel of the fabric. If I'm gonna buy something to wear, I really wanna be sure it's nice against my skin before I buy.

    Sadly, I live in the arse end of nowhere though, and there's a lot of stuff I find without looking online.

  • Blastboom Strice@mander.xyz
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    6 hours ago

    If I ever buy any clothing online (so far I think it has been shoes that was very hard to find), I first go to physical shops that either have the same thing I want (probably at a higher price) or have the same model, but in a different color scheme and then go online to buy it :)

  • Mothra@mander.xyz
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    9 hours ago

    Absolutely, you have the possibility of judging the garment quality by touching it, you can see exactly how large it is and, in most cases, you can try it on to make sure it fits you and that you are okay with how it fits. You can't do any of that online.

  • 🐋 Color 🍁 ♀@lemm.ee
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    14 hours ago

    I don't shop for clothes online. In clothes shops they typically have changing rooms, and there would be nothing more disappointing than finding a dress or other article of clothing that I really like, only to try it on after it gets delivered, and find out it's either too big or too small...

    • I'm_All_NEET:3@lemmy.ml
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      14 hours ago

      I really rely on those changing rooms. I know this may sound like a pity drag but as someone with shall we say "behind" it's super hard to find things that fit over my weste.

      I would like to dedicate this post to all the amazing jeans and skirts that could have been worn. Your service who have been appreciated.

  • LaGG_3 [he/him, comrade/them]
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    13 hours ago

    Sizes feel like they're mostly made up, especially for stuff in the ladies section. The only success I've found with reliable online sizing is with stores that cater towards expensive selvedge denim (and similar clothing) - they usually go with the actual garment's dimensions so that it's easy to compare with a similar item from your wardrobe.

    Don't even get me started on shoes lol