First a call-out of fatphobia (https://hexbear.net/post/4189552) that ended up proving its point, then the stuff about "he/hims" (https://hexbear.net/post/4187781) ". Apparently a mod got banned!?

I am not very active and I never look at the megathreads, the number of comments in them scare me away from them. Is that where it's happening? I feel confused about what this community is like now.

I, uh, don't really know what my point is. Maybe someone can explain what the state of the site is? Especially on the he/hims thing. Maybe that's the main point of this post.

I feel sad for people that got hurt by this.

  • Justice@lemmygrad.ml
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    5 days ago

    Holy fuck I just took critical damage from being on the other side of a massive essay. Now I know how everyone how everyone else feels.

    (Good post though)

    • CarlMarks@lemmygrad.ml
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      5 days ago

      Ha sorry I can write long things if I don't go through a few rounds of editing. When hitting the lemmy instance comment length limit is the cue to wrap it up you know you have a problem.

      • Justice@lemmygrad.ml
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        5 days ago

        🫡 I've been there before

        There also used to be a bug in one of the apps (don't remember which) that would cause it to crash if over some limit. Not the lemmy limit though. I got a new app.