nobody is forcing you to give and definitely nobody is forcing you to publicly shame. I wouldn't have said that if you guys would have been less shitty about things. "Sorry OP but I'm not comfortable giving until you're clean".... is an acceptable way to do that... Instead her personal life and finances are splayed out for everyone to see. I'm not an idiot. I know this is an ongoing issue and I know the money may get spent on drugs... but that's the same as when I hand a homeless person a dollar on the street.
edit: yeah she's been open about her life but by throwing it in her face you're just teaching people to lie or look for more dangerous avenues to make ends meet. I should know, my sister was constantly forced into abusive relationships to survive because my family treated her like shit.
she literally dramatically posts her entire life on this website and begs nobody asked her to do any of this
nobody ive seen has shamed her and i really think youre going too deep into this, first off a homeless person thats on them sure, same with her (but she isnt even homeless, has a job, etc but just doesnt want to change clearly toxic, self destructive behaviour)
but when this is consistent at this rate its not mutual aid and its kind of toxic
also, literally breaking mod rules if shes using it for that:
Do not request donations for funding anything explicitly illegal.
“just choose to not be addicted to drugs” rhetoric going on here
" DM me your paypal if you’re still around. Kratom is on me if ya wanna try it."
no offense you get youre low key enabling her right?
she needs to get completely sober and its super clear people literally gave her money last night and its gone now this happens so much 😅
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so you need 150 to make it this week but you cant make 228 last?
do you see the problem???????
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Cool story bro.
she is literally saying how shes still buying shit and if she didnt do that she would be fine
you get we dont hate her / etc we just dont feel like being a personal atm machine and being labeled x y z for thinking its kind of toxic?
nobody is forcing you to give and definitely nobody is forcing you to publicly shame. I wouldn't have said that if you guys would have been less shitty about things. "Sorry OP but I'm not comfortable giving until you're clean".... is an acceptable way to do that... Instead her personal life and finances are splayed out for everyone to see. I'm not an idiot. I know this is an ongoing issue and I know the money may get spent on drugs... but that's the same as when I hand a homeless person a dollar on the street.
edit: yeah she's been open about her life but by throwing it in her face you're just teaching people to lie or look for more dangerous avenues to make ends meet. I should know, my sister was constantly forced into abusive relationships to survive because my family treated her like shit.
?????
she literally dramatically posts her entire life on this website and begs nobody asked her to do any of this
nobody ive seen has shamed her and i really think youre going too deep into this, first off a homeless person thats on them sure, same with her (but she isnt even homeless, has a job, etc but just doesnt want to change clearly toxic, self destructive behaviour)
but when this is consistent at this rate its not mutual aid and its kind of toxic
also, literally breaking mod rules if shes using it for that:
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