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this is why we need universal healthcare smh, get people those cheap ass anti-dope addiction meds
Almost as bad as Bernie once again asking for your financial support.
what the fuck this is not mutual aid
"And no, I’m not spending all this money on dope."
so you need 20$ and some cents to fill a hole that you could probably just not do meth and youre good
and i get it sometimes things are hard but seriously wtf what is this meth aesthetic you have like its cool btw
everyone is struggling rn if you need someone who doesnt even have a home to cook for you because youre habits thats so fucked, and youre always on here e begging for a crisis, but you dont want to do anything to change?
get clean THEN come back, we wish you the best but this really isnt even mutual aid at this point
and also, please dont say i dont understand, you dont know me and ive been through some shit but i definitely would reevaluate a lot at this point js
the thing that gets me is how are you immediately after someone calls this out try to guilt them by saying youre being shamed and whatever
like nobody is shaming you, just its super clear what is happening but she doesnt want to solve it, and then turns around and lashes out and tries guilt tripping you
You need to keep your job. I want to see a post tomorrow with a picture/vid of you throwing away any amount of meth. Don't post face, but do get at least a pinch full in the trash. I have my own issues with food and I will commit to improving as well through solidarity. We can do this together, comrade.
you might want to consider swapping off of comcast and go for this: https://calyxinstitute.org/membership/internet, drops the cost down a bit on your internet payment
I can't do any of this stuff quick enough for Rachel to get the money in time, but if anyone here is in Canada and has a CashApp account, I could e-transfer you $20 to your bank account so that you could send it to Rachel. DM me if you can.
my guy no thank you
also im not saying cut toxic people butttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt
you know?
like im just saying if you have to always feel guilty enough to do this maybe think about that?
edit: im just saying it sort of seems toxic when you literally (i see this guy doing this all the time) for someone who clearly needs help beyond this one guy who might be kind of being used. it sucks to deal with and be that guy that always feels like they need to provide for someone like this. at a ceirtain point it just gets exhausting and you just cant help some people and it gets sad super quick especially if (like this guy) you get this invested in the situation
sue me
but are you whoever is reading this going to pay for this meth habit on the link? just think about it is ALL im saying calm down
Why the fuck did 7 people downvote this?
EDIT: Well, this rabbit hole went way deeper than I was expecting.
Of anything should be allowed to be double posted, though, it's someone in desperate need.
ok but I doubt she did it on purpose and it's not constructive to have 2 dueling threads
Good point about the dueling threads.
I'm thinking that she posted in the main community first, then realized that she should have posted it in the mutual aid community, so she posted this thread. I guess she could have deleted the first thread but w/e. Since this one has more upbears, I think we should keep upbearing this thread and downbear the other one.
Disappointed by the public shaming / "just choose to not be addicted to drugs" rhetoric going on here. Getting the feeling that some of yall are the type to berate a homeless person who asks for cash on the street to make yourself feel good.
I think I've mentioned it before OP but you can detox from meth with kratom to help the w/d symptoms. DM me your paypal if you're still around. Kratom is on me if ya wanna try it.
“just choose to not be addicted to drugs” rhetoric going on here
" DM me your paypal if you’re still around. Kratom is on me if ya wanna try it."
no offense you get youre low key enabling her right?
she needs to get completely sober and its super clear people literally gave her money last night and its gone now this happens so much 😅
she is literally saying how shes still buying shit and if she didnt do that she would be fine
you get we dont hate her / etc we just dont feel like being a personal atm machine and being labeled x y z for thinking its kind of toxic?
nobody is forcing you to give and definitely nobody is forcing you to publicly shame. I wouldn't have said that if you guys would have been less shitty about things. "Sorry OP but I'm not comfortable giving until you're clean".... is an acceptable way to do that... Instead her personal life and finances are splayed out for everyone to see. I'm not an idiot. I know this is an ongoing issue and I know the money may get spent on drugs... but that's the same as when I hand a homeless person a dollar on the street.
edit: yeah she's been open about her life but by throwing it in her face you're just teaching people to lie or look for more dangerous avenues to make ends meet. I should know, my sister was constantly forced into abusive relationships to survive because my family treated her like shit.
?????
she literally dramatically posts her entire life on this website and begs nobody asked her to do any of this
nobody ive seen has shamed her and i really think youre going too deep into this, first off a homeless person thats on them sure, same with her (but she isnt even homeless, has a job, etc but just doesnt want to change clearly toxic, self destructive behaviour)
but when this is consistent at this rate its not mutual aid and its kind of toxic
also, literally breaking mod rules if shes using it for that:
- Do not request donations for funding anything explicitly illegal.
so you need 150 to make it this week but you cant make 228 last?
do you see the problem???????
