ewno [des/pair]

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Cake day: October 25th, 2020

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  • ewno [des/pair]tomutual_aid*Permanently Deleted*
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    4 years ago

    ?????

    she literally dramatically posts her entire life on this website and begs nobody asked her to do any of this

    nobody ive seen has shamed her and i really think youre going too deep into this, first off a homeless person thats on them sure, same with her (but she isnt even homeless, has a job, etc but just doesnt want to change clearly toxic, self destructive behaviour)

    but when this is consistent at this rate its not mutual aid and its kind of toxic

    also, literally breaking mod rules if shes using it for that:

    1. Do not request donations for funding anything explicitly illegal.

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    4 years ago

    she is literally saying how shes still buying shit and if she didnt do that she would be fine

    you get we dont hate her / etc we just dont feel like being a personal atm machine and being labeled x y z for thinking its kind of toxic?


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    4 years ago

    “just choose to not be addicted to drugs” rhetoric going on here

    " DM me your paypal if you’re still around. Kratom is on me if ya wanna try it."

    no offense you get youre low key enabling her right?

    she needs to get completely sober and its super clear people literally gave her money last night and its gone now this happens so much 😅



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    4 years ago

    my guy no thank you

    also im not saying cut toxic people butttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt

    you know?

    like im just saying if you have to always feel guilty enough to do this maybe think about that?

    edit: im just saying it sort of seems toxic when you literally (i see this guy doing this all the time) for someone who clearly needs help beyond this one guy who might be kind of being used. it sucks to deal with and be that guy that always feels like they need to provide for someone like this. at a ceirtain point it just gets exhausting and you just cant help some people and it gets sad super quick especially if (like this guy) you get this invested in the situation

    sue me

    but are you whoever is reading this going to pay for this meth habit on the link? just think about it is ALL im saying calm down


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    4 years ago

    what the fuck this is not mutual aid

    "And no, I’m not spending all this money on dope."

    so you need 20$ and some cents to fill a hole that you could probably just not do meth and youre good

    and i get it sometimes things are hard but seriously wtf what is this meth aesthetic you have like its cool btw

    everyone is struggling rn if you need someone who doesnt even have a home to cook for you because youre habits thats so fucked, and youre always on here e begging for a crisis, but you dont want to do anything to change?

    get clean THEN come back, we wish you the best but this really isnt even mutual aid at this point

    and also, please dont say i dont understand, you dont know me and ive been through some shit but i definitely would reevaluate a lot at this point js