ah you see, yelling slurs "united us" because "we" weren't the target of those slurs. A bunch of white straight guys calling each other N-F every two seconds aren't offended so it was all in good taste! "We" were "united" by pushing away everyone who wasn't "us". And that's a good thing! And now that we don't have the ability to drive away people who aren't "us" it's a bad thing! It makes us soft to not be able to keep our lobby nice and white and straight! It makes us soft to be forced to play with the target of our hate!

Imagine saying any of this with zero self awareness.