gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"

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    How do you know that a woman is trans if she doesn't tell you? How do you know that a woman is cis if she doesn't tell you? That's about it, really. That and don't call yourself gay for dating a trans woman or hide her from your family/friends.

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      Sometimes you can tell if someone is trans, especially if you know their gender, and especially with less clothes on. It's unfortunate but it's not impossible to at least predict who's cis and not

      • gay [any]
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        4 years ago

        You didn't get the point but that's ok. I'm not coming to this community back on purpose for a loong time.

        • duck [he/him,they/them]
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          4 years ago

          I really don't mean any harm and I'm sorry to hear that. Is the community not accepting enough or is it something else?

          • gay [any]
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            4 years ago

            Too much transphobia on this thread. This little self-awareness is unacceptable in an "LGBT" community. I'm not interested in cishets being coddled in this space, yall treated it with no difference from c/main.

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              4 years ago

              Didn't even notice what community it was on, think I was browsing all. I'll keep an eye out in the future before posting. I'm not familiar with the comm but guessing this might not be the place to question stances like this as a cishet rather than discussing it on main or something