• froztbyte@awful.systems
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    1 year ago

    The line between “actually believes $x” and “appears to actually believe $x” can be made heeeeeella fuzzy (and people in that space take advantage of that)

    Curious about the latter half of your remarks. Is that opinion, or something grounded in other knowledge that isn’t widely known yet?

    • TerribleMachines@awful.systems
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      1 year ago

      Good point with the line! Some of the best liars are good at pretending to themselves they believe something.

      I don't think its widely known, but it is known, (old sneeeclub posts about it somwhere) that he used to feed the people he was dating LSD and try to convince them they "depended" on him.

      First time I met him, in a professional setting, he had his (at the time) wife kneeling at his feet wearing a collar.

      Do I have hard proof he's a criminal? Probably not, at least not without digging. Do I think he is? Almost certainly.

      • self@awful.systemsM
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        1 year ago

        First time I met him, in a professional setting, he had his (at the time) wife kneeling at his feet wearing a collar.

        hold on, you can’t just write this paragraph and then continue on as if it’s not a whole damn thing

        ah yes the first time I met yud he non-consensually involved me in his bondage play with his wife (which he somehow incorporated into a business meeting)

        • TerribleMachines@awful.systems
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          1 year ago

          😅 honestly I don't know what else to say, the memory haunts me to this day. I think it was the point when I started going "huh, the rats make weirdly dumb mistakes considering they've made posts exactly about these kinds of error" to "wait, there's something really sinister going on here"

          • earthquake@lemm.ee
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            1 year ago

            Can you say where and when this happened without doxxing yourself? Was anyone else around while he and his wife were doing this?