I’m also sorry about your loss. And I’m really sorry because I should have just prefaced everything with that. I’m sorry. I am just so happy I didn’t lose my brother but I am so focused on where to go from here and that had me responding like a dick.
You are fine, I am the one who posted the triggering topic lol. I am just trying to be hyper aware of this stuff because my brother OD’d when he was watching his child and his girlfriend was at work. Her dad died of the same thing. My brother is fine but she is understandably extremely upset and I was just worried about my brother being okay so I discounted her for way too long at first in the conversation. You’re fine.
Edit: I also mean to add that CPS is apparently involved and I’m legit worried for her as a mom of my nephew. I just worried if I’m centering myself too much because she has something going on as a result that I can’t even begin to imagine. Just for going to work. And the opiate shit going on is insane for this to even be an issue like that. This is ridiculous knowing how far reaching this shit is. And I’m pretty sure the only thing that saved me from it is my literal allergy to opiates
I just worried if I’m centering myself too much because she has something going on as a result that I can’t even begin to imagine.
have to take care of yourself before you can feasibly be there to help her or your brother. this is hard and it will take work to process. you're doing the right thing by trying to do that. :heart-sickle: solidarity (+ support, if you need it)
I’m also sorry about your loss. And I’m really sorry because I should have just prefaced everything with that. I’m sorry. I am just so happy I didn’t lose my brother but I am so focused on where to go from here and that had me responding like a dick.
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You are fine, I am the one who posted the triggering topic lol. I am just trying to be hyper aware of this stuff because my brother OD’d when he was watching his child and his girlfriend was at work. Her dad died of the same thing. My brother is fine but she is understandably extremely upset and I was just worried about my brother being okay so I discounted her for way too long at first in the conversation. You’re fine.
Edit: I also mean to add that CPS is apparently involved and I’m legit worried for her as a mom of my nephew. I just worried if I’m centering myself too much because she has something going on as a result that I can’t even begin to imagine. Just for going to work. And the opiate shit going on is insane for this to even be an issue like that. This is ridiculous knowing how far reaching this shit is. And I’m pretty sure the only thing that saved me from it is my literal allergy to opiates
have to take care of yourself before you can feasibly be there to help her or your brother. this is hard and it will take work to process. you're doing the right thing by trying to do that. :heart-sickle: solidarity (+ support, if you need it)
Thank you. I may take you up on that if it’s okay sometime
yea, any time. my DMs are open.
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