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    • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]
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      10 months ago

      i got yelled at by some old people at a poetry slam. they kept saying that "you cant do that in front of white people"

      I was like "but you can make fun of a black women in front of white people?"

      and they were like "yes kids are too sensitive now a days, men make fun of their wives in public and let people laugh at them"

      and i said " yeah I guess I expect more respect from men, my partner would never make fun of my appearance and would confront anyone who did, especially a friend "

      and they had no real response, i think it was being live streamed lol they then went on to talk about how black peoples problems are our own faults, and called for respectability politics. I never went back to the poetry slam, the poetry was AWFUL anyway.

      • the_post_of_tom_joad [any, any]
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        10 months ago

        I love the part of your story about the poetry slam. The story works without that context, but the fact you had this conversation at a poetry slam, surrounded by (in my imagination) bad poetry and snapping beatniks really elevated it somehow

        • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]
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          10 months ago

          some more scenery, a echo-y microphone, incense and essential oils so strong it hurts your head, a very dimly lit room, a mother and son poetry duo, african statues placed haphazardly around the room.

      • Magician [he/him, they/them]
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        10 months ago

        I've heard the take of 'not in front of the white people!' And I've got mixed feelings on the idea. You're right though - making fun of a black woman's appearance is really fucked up and didn't get nearly as much attention as the slap.

        And who would want a partner who made shitty boomer jokes about them? I've never thought to make fun of my partner's appearance to their face, let alone to others.

        • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]
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          10 months ago

          i dont think the boomer "i hate my wife" jokes were jokes, they actually hate their wives and the wives think its normal.

          • Magician [he/him, they/them]
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            10 months ago

            Yeah, full stop. I work with a lot of those types and they just hate their wives. It's such a gross mindset

    • seitanic@lemmy.sdf.org
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      10 months ago

      why do people care abt the damn slap so much?

      Will Smith is an African-American man. That slap triggered a lot of people's latent racism.

    • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
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      10 months ago

      yeah who gives a fuck about a celebrity being slapped. Like it's such a small thing when you have any sense of perspective but people get so worked up about it it's quite puzzling