I have a crush on a woman who works at the Chinese restaurant in my town. She's older than me and I think she's beautiful and really my type. I feel like a creepy incel who's obsessed with asian women. I promise you I'm not, I like all women, really.

    • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
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      4 years ago

      I’m saying that in my experience with this vein of OCD stuff, becoming less bigoted doesn’t make the thoughts go away. It actually intensifies them.

      Oh for sure! Like I still have bad thoughts about seeing black people, then I have to remind myself who I am who there are and how much we have in common. I have a very racist family I came from, so that's where I learned it. Thanks!