I have a crush on a woman who works at the Chinese restaurant in my town. She's older than me and I think she's beautiful and really my type. I feel like a creepy incel who's obsessed with asian women. I promise you I'm not, I like all women, really.
Bruh, just because you have a crush on an Asian woman that doesn't make you a fetishist.
Okay that makes me feel a bit better. I think they are pretty tho, all women are pretty honestly.
If you like a woman because she's Asian, you might have a problem. If you like a woman because she's pretty and cool, then you are good.
Yeah! It's good to examine yourself for unconscious bias, but don't be too hard on yourself
I mean I'm not going to lie, I really like foreign women, I think they are beautiful but I've also dated anglo women too who I was in love with.
South American
My first girlfriend was from Brazil. We met by accident on an old defunct message board for depression way back in 2011. Yes the women in south america are quite pretty.
It's really okay to be attracted to someone of a different race. It would actually be more fucked up if you were only attracted to Anglo women
Nah I'm such a lonely guy I latch on to any woman who shows me affection lol
I remember those days, and yeah, it's hard. Hang in there comrade
Thank you. That's like I met someone when I was in the psych ward this last time and I've been thinking about trying to reach out to her on facebook, we hit it off and we're friends. Dunno what I want, I guess I just want a friend irl i dunno
Nope I think feet are pretty gross, no offense to fans of them
Okay maybe if the feet are rubbed down with rubbing alcohol I will lick them. I'm literally on OCD medication and this shit triggers me.
Not gonna lie, feel kind of betrayed to find out you don't have a foot fetish too. Still love you though Soros :heart-sickle:
Avoiding being racist by thinking there’s something wrong with anyone whose attracted to a non-white woman attractive.
yup I finally got diagnosed, I got put on prozac for it. you think that's what's got me mixed up and feeling weird?
. I’ve heard of people who had intrusive thoughts about killing their families up to the point of them believing they were a serial killer without having ever so much as harmed any of them and it turns out they just had some intense OCD (not like it’s not a big deal, but it’s better than being a literal murderer).
Been there and done that. But thanks, this is very eye opening.
you’ve probably got plenty of sexism and racism in you too
Yes I do and I'm trying to unlearn it.
I’m saying that in my experience with this vein of OCD stuff, becoming less bigoted doesn’t make the thoughts go away. It actually intensifies them.
Oh for sure! Like I still have bad thoughts about seeing black people, then I have to remind myself who I am who there are and how much we have in common. I have a very racist family I came from, so that's where I learned it. Thanks!
That, my friend, should be a giant stop sign. Stop thinking about her like this.
Hit and miss, but the lo mein and garlic chicken is amazing
Dang. Trying to find a spot with good general tso's. It's always too soggy at the places I go.
Theirs is a bit too dried out for my taste. Some day I'd love to have authentic Chinese food
I feel like this too. So I while back helped my older nephew enroll in the local high school. After a few days of paper work and stuff finally got him in and went to see about getting him a computer. We went to the library and the librarian turned out to be a teacher I had a huge crush on in eleventh grade. She looked amazing like she hadn't aged a day to me, admittedly got the rose tinted glasses so.... I had her class like back in 2010.
Anyway we never got my nephew his books but he says he doesn't need them. I kind of want to go back but mostly to see her again but I can't force my nephew around on my behalf. Even then I'm like you were I'm to shy to say anything. She wasn't Asian but a white women, married to boot and with 3 kids.
Feel weird saying all this but wanted you to know you aren't alone. I know it's not gonna go anywhere but idk I feel something. A longing or calling to see her again. I need to do something with these feelings but not something that bothers her you know? I've heard the term sublimation where artists take their feelings and put them out there in the form of art and thinking of trying that.
Gonna get odd but I feel like I'm vibing with her on a deep level or at least something unexamined is going on on my end. Writing about it now helped at least.
Realizing this whole post of mine might have been off topic because you're more worried with being racist I think but gonna put the wall of text anyway.
Realizing this whole post of mine might have been off topic because you’re more worried with being racist I think but gonna put the wall of text anyway.
Nope you're good and thanks for sharing!
