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  • juxtaplicity [she/her]
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    3 years ago

    Also for those wondering, the server name changes every week or so as a bit

  • Infamousblt [any]
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    3 years ago

    Yeah the discord is chill. We need to figure out how to get that vibe here. Maybe it's because they vet their users

  • HarryLime [any]
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    3 years ago

    Discord gives me a headache. I don't know how people use it.

      • HarryLime [any]
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        3 years ago

        I just wonder if I'm using it wrong? It seems like the conversation moves too fast to keep up or write anything thoughtful. I used the slow comm before the site was created, and now it seems like it's dead.

  • 3am [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    I tried to join after the subreddit was killed, but they didn’t let me in for some reason, apparently I’m still banned lol

    No clue why, all I would’ve done is lurked, same thing I do here, same thing I did on the subreddit :’(

    • juxtaplicity [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      Hey! Yeah, not sure what was going on back then. I'm an admin, DM me with your discord info and I can look into getting you unbanned.

  • CrowTankieRobot [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Can anyone help with joining the Discord? I keep getting an "unable to accept invite" message. I already have a Discord account that works, so I don't know what's going on.

  • JesusInVegas [none/use name]
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    3 years ago

    I love both communities equally. I try to be active in both communities equally, and I support the moderation staff of both communities in doing a difficult job for free. That being said, mod accountability on the discord isn't perfect, and the discourse between mods and users is often strained.

      • JesusInVegas [none/use name]
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        3 years ago

        Yes and no. I ultimately understand why memes like that aren't allowed, and I support the mod team's decision to ban them. But the way the mod team handles things like this, with little to no communication, is frustrating. Mutes and warnings should come with an explanation. There's a history of this being a problem there.

        • communist_princess [she/her]
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          3 years ago

          Lol dude I saw you in the memes channel when you got muted, they told you to not most hentai memes. Why are you trying to spread drama about the discord over here?

          • JesusInVegas [none/use name]
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            3 years ago

            I'm not trying to spread drama, just draw comparisons to what people are complaining about here. The discord server has seen many people abandon it over the heavy handed manner mods handle disagreements. I was granted a warning without any explanation and had to ask for clarification. I wouldn't be so butthurt about it if a mod had messaged me and said "look, we're doing this because this, and this violates our new rules, which are in place to make the server more accessible to women". I get it, I agree with it, I'll stop posting it. Calm begets calm.