• SocialistWombat [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Maybe you just haven't found the right girl to trust that you feel like you can smooch? It wasn't until my late twenties until I even kissed a girl. Next date we went under the bed sheets. Married now to the same girl.

      It's not about smooching or banging, it's about finding someone you can be with. That shit's the hard part.

        • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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          4 years ago

          Well, first point taken I guess. What's stopping you from not being one? How would you even define loser?

          Second point though - no offense but it sounds like your problem isn't being too smart, it's thinking you're too smart. If I was looking for a partner and they said that to me I'd instantly go off them.

          There's plenty of smart people around, that wouldn't be intimidated by your genius I'm sure.