There is this joke that

"Women or enbies dating cis men is proof that sexuality isn't a choice"

My perspective with men is only from them hitting on me and my friends dating them, but the bar is so damn low.

Hitting on me wise- Feels like theyre trying to ritually summon a date and not engage with me as a person, and this includes the non-creepy guys. Even hyper awkward women engage me as a person

Dating wise: men act like children. They don't understand the concept of the second shift of labor.