• Zo1db3rg [comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    If my own personal experience is anything to go by theres probably a portion of dudes trying "to do the right thing" by getting financially stable and having a place of their own with a good job before starting to try and date. Which in this capitalist hell hole is becoming so increasingly difficult by the time thats achieved they've been out of the game so long its like, where tf do i even start? I had a chance over a year ago to get my own place finally and then covid happened. Sure as shit not getting my own place after my job fired 10% of the workforce. Not taking that risk. Now im just trying to get stable with a new job. lol. Its one delay after the other. Like where do you even start when you get to early 30s and haven't tried dating someone since HS? lol.