It's 100% untrue. Men are beautiful. You are beautiful. Believe in yourself and remember that the most attractive thing in the world is a kind heart and that starts with being kind to yourself.
Don't let the world make you feel ugly, they're just trying to sell you shit.
Oh, I'm not Indian and where did I say I was? But it's a situation many real-live American men face. You may substitute any of society's groups that incite laughter when presented as attractive or sexy.
TBH this sounds suspiciously similar to the right-wing "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" rhetoric. Go fix yourself and things will be fine!
If you're not Indian, you're first post makes you're attitude look even shittier. Some people laugh for shitty reasons. So what? Does that mean one should give up and prove them correct?
This is the bloomer comm, love yourself and find people who love you.
These are real problems faced by real men and no amount of sunshine is going to change it. What would anyone do in a situation like that? Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is a discredited attitude.
You can get help from others too, but your personal attitude is critical. Get that doomerism out of the bloomer comm, friend.
Regarding you're claim that this is bootstraps, this isn't about fixing or excusing systemic poverty. It's about personal development.
I know a short Asian guy who had similar laments to you. He still got a girlfriend, and he has a loving and confident attitude.
Yeah, but why bring race into it at all and why single out Indian men? As I said, I wouldn’t be surprised if you frequent lookism or some site like it. You have a really bitter attitude like a lot of the posters there seem to have .
White people aren’t some superior group of gorgeous tall demigods
its not telling you to bootstrap, its saying that you're already fine the way you are and to not let other people dictate how you see yourself.