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    • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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      4 years ago

      Spending Easter weekend as closeted bi dude with my homophobic evangelical Christian parents. It's not going great folks.

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Fello bi remain strong I am with you :flag-bi-pride: 😔

        • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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          4 years ago
          CW: bigotry, homophobia, transphobia

          Someone from the family has a trans student in their class and the student accidentally outed themselves to them through some status thing online and they're making a big deal of how they're going to treat the student "equally and normally", while at the same making fun of her (the student) in private.

          Someone please end me now, idk how I can continue like this.

          • Rem [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            It's super gross how casual people can be about their bigotry, like it's a joke to them, your entire existence worthy only of contempt. My family is pretty similar.

            I hope you're able to get some distance from them before long. Tons of love :meow-hug:

            • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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              4 years ago

              I'm disabled/have a degenerative disease so idk if I'll ever be fully independent. I'm going to try my best though, can't live my life much longer like this, in the closet and in hiding from everyone irl. It really eats away at everything.

              But I genuinely appreciate the kindness here, I really appreciate it, means a lot more than you think. Almost made me cry, tbh I try not to think about everything too much.

              :af-heart: :heart-sickle: :meow-hug:

              • Rem [she/her]
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                4 years ago

                That complicates things a lot huh. I can't know your life or what's safe for you, but look for opportunities where you can. If anything else friends or even internet strangers to be "out" to can help a lot. But I will reiterate, you're a comrade and a bi bro, we're on each other's team and I support you wholeheartedly 💕

                • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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                  4 years ago

                  Thanks for the support, wish I could send more than emotes over the internet.

                  :stalin-heart: :heart-sickle: :hexbear-bi-2: :hexbear-bi:

                  • Rem [she/her]
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                    4 years ago

                    I feel the love. Kinda wish we had a bi heart, I'd use the heck out of that since I'm not trans but I'm hella bi and full of love.

          • TheOldRazzleDazzle [he/him]
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            4 years ago

            Umm tell me that your family member also is a student and not the teacher. Otherwise recording them and accidentally leaking the recording sure sounds like praxis to me.