They sound like boring nerds , if it were me I'd GTFO. I've generally had better luck meeting cool real-life comrades via orgs doing work on the ground, e.g., mutual aid groups, infoshops and community centers, prisoner support networks, etc. I've found sitting around with a bunch of dorks arguing about theory for hours tends to suck most of the time. However I've found working side-by-side with people who may or may not share your exact politics, but are united around a set of common goals to be much more rewarding. YMMV though.
Yeah, fair points all! I was probably projecting a bit of my own experiences there